How I perceive others and how do they perceive me, what I think is the best way to deliver thoughts and what they think is the best way to conceive words. Simple words if expressed in a high pitched tone may be achieved as excitement, attitude, over-powering, over smart or RUDE!!
Well, I haven't been thrown that word in the ever .. I mean EVER .. and it really HURT .. Not sure how bad .. but it really did pierce through and hurt my heart!
As much as I like being a part of the group, I don't like losing my individuality. And the group loses its charm when there are some who DIVIDE and Try to RULE! :X Some people just have that evil charm and loud voice to take over people' mind and get themselves to be notices by all - may their talk be interesting or not, funny or not, smart or not but it is definitely biased. Normally people with average Social IQ's are not best at detecting such cases and thus fall victim to hurtful images as people backbite and make bad perceptions of them.
I know I have been involved in doing that a lot and would now take a check before saying anything behind anyone's back! :)
LESSON LEARNT -
- Try to control and eventually STOP talking behind people's back in PUBLIC! :P
- STOP creating negative notions about people.
- IGNORE and STAY away from negative wavelengths of other "Socially" tricky people.
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