Hmm not sure if this logic has been shared out there already but I would like to coin this as the mantra for modern life meditation and happy living!
So let me explain, fine Monday morning you wake on time, get dressed, have a quick breakfast and head out to work, your ever so quite co-worker jumps at you and says so how come you are late? Hmm 8:30 am entrance in a quite office is late? NOW DO NOT LET YOUR MIND even go in the direction of making yourself feel guilty about ANYTHING do not reply back with a smirk or anything, smile sweetly and ignore! It definitely takes courage to not ick and not sternly reply back but ohh well you know what it will spoil your mood, it does not reflect badly on your personality but it will definitely make you feel good and strong.
Now there is a fine line between speaking up for yourself and IGNORING!
The Power of " GOOD FOR YOU"
Me: I haven't checked my Gmail yet..
So called Friend: How come you reply within seconds on Facebook and you haven't checked your email since last week!
Me: I think I receive FB notifications on my phone
So Called Friend: Huh! I'd rather pull information than have FB PUSH information to me!
My BRAIN : Pause "shall I punch him" "WTF It's my life, my phone, My FB account, my GMAIL account, MY WISH" WTH... Pause
Me: Ahem .. GOOD FOR YOU!
:)
Dang It I am getting better at this game -- so use the power of smile and well "GOOD FOR YOU" .. it helps keep your weather with you! :) Happy Sunshine!
So let me explain, fine Monday morning you wake on time, get dressed, have a quick breakfast and head out to work, your ever so quite co-worker jumps at you and says so how come you are late? Hmm 8:30 am entrance in a quite office is late? NOW DO NOT LET YOUR MIND even go in the direction of making yourself feel guilty about ANYTHING do not reply back with a smirk or anything, smile sweetly and ignore! It definitely takes courage to not ick and not sternly reply back but ohh well you know what it will spoil your mood, it does not reflect badly on your personality but it will definitely make you feel good and strong.
Now there is a fine line between speaking up for yourself and IGNORING!
The Power of " GOOD FOR YOU"
Me: I haven't checked my Gmail yet..
So called Friend: How come you reply within seconds on Facebook and you haven't checked your email since last week!
Me: I think I receive FB notifications on my phone
So Called Friend: Huh! I'd rather pull information than have FB PUSH information to me!
My BRAIN : Pause "shall I punch him" "WTF It's my life, my phone, My FB account, my GMAIL account, MY WISH" WTH... Pause
Me: Ahem .. GOOD FOR YOU!
:)
Dang It I am getting better at this game -- so use the power of smile and well "GOOD FOR YOU" .. it helps keep your weather with you! :) Happy Sunshine!
