My Dukan Diary

Freak - O - nomics

Fact #1: People respond to incentives (Incentives matter)

If you figure out the incentives and what drives them then you should be able to guess how they are going to behave. (or actually how do you want them to behave)

Fact #2: If you are not Cheating, you are not Trying!

Fact #3: Pure Corruption; corruption exists everywhere and the only way to control it for a while is by throwing some Sunlight as Sunlight is the best disinfectant.

Fact #4: Love does wonders but lure of incentives gets the loved ones to do what we want!! Learn the idea of designing the incentives.

Fact #5: The only way to ruin your image is by taking sides and fights. Incentives let us seek the truth and not have an agenda.

Perception

Perception, sense, formation of a concept is a too technical word but when applied to self -- it is exponentially complicated.

How I perceive others and how do they perceive me, what I think is the best way to deliver thoughts and what they think is the best way to conceive words. Simple words if expressed in a high pitched tone may be achieved as excitement, attitude, over-powering, over smart or RUDE!!

Well, I haven't been thrown that word in the ever .. I mean EVER .. and it really HURT .. Not sure how bad .. but it really did pierce through and hurt my heart!

As much as I like being a part of the group, I don't like losing my individuality. And the group loses its charm when there are some who DIVIDE and Try to RULE! :X Some people just have that evil charm and loud voice to take over people' mind and get themselves to be notices by all - may their talk be interesting or not, funny or not, smart or not but it is definitely biased. Normally people with average Social IQ's are not best at detecting such cases and thus fall victim to hurtful images as people backbite and make bad perceptions of them.

I know I have been involved in doing that a lot and would now take a check before saying anything behind anyone's back! :)

LESSON LEARNT -

• Try to control and eventually STOP talking behind people's back in PUBLIC! :P
• STOP creating negative notions about people.
• IGNORE and STAY away from negative wavelengths of other "Socially" tricky people.

Self Pity

I am writing this post after a long long gap and not sure aht made me take this long gap...

Recently, I know I have been slacking

pushing off work

procrastinating things...

Nothing keeps me up beat-- Pictures, events, hang outs nothing seems to make me happy ...

With the fear of losing it all - I wake up every day and drag myself to work and come back home , waste time in front of the TV and sleep

Not sure why but seems like this has become the norm and i don;t want myself to jump out of it -- this is not ME!

I have a lot of potential -- I can handle a lot of things at one time , I have amazing interests and wonderful imagination and proper people skills to influence them all and have FUN :)

but Suddenly I have landed in this position where all I have been doing in pitying myself! Feeling Sorry for myself ... is that true? Should this how it should be? NO RIGHT!!

I know -- but I need help in coming out of this mode -- my interests are getting short lived day by day -- I like doing stuff-- overcome it and then go back to slacking -- What is my passion!!! Trying new things all the time cannot be a Passion!! Or maybe it can be??