Tuesday, August 30, 2011

From The Nine Insights

An unconscious competition for energy underlies all conflicts. By dominating or manipulating others, we get the extra energy we think we need. Sure, it feels good - but both parties are damaged in the conflict.

The key to overcoming conflict in the world is the mystical experience, which is available to everyone. To nurture the mystical and build your energy, allow yourself to be filled with a sense of love.
Childhood traumas block our ability to fully experience the mystical. All humans, because of their upbringing, tend toward one of four control dramas:
  • Intimidators steal energy from others by threat.
  • Interrogators steal it by judging and questioning.
  • Aloof people attract attention (and energy) to themselves by playing coy.
  • Poor me's make us feel guilty and responsible for them.
Become aware of the family dynamics that created your control drama and you can focus on your essential question, which is how to make of your life a higher- level synthesis of your parents' lives.

Once cleared of traumas, you can build energy through contemplation and meditation, focus on you basic life question, and start riding a steady stream of intuitions, dreams, and synchronistic coincidences, all guiding you in the direction of your own evolution and transformation.

That evolution can't be done alone, so begin to practice the new "Interpersonal Ethic" by uplifting those who cross your path. Talk to people who make spontaneous eye contact with you. Avoid co-dependent relationships. Be there for people. Call attention to other people's control dramas. In groups, speak when the spirit (instead of the ego) moves you.

Our purpose here is to evolve beyond this plane. Fewer people (a result of reproductive abstinence) and more old-growth forests will help us to sustain our energy and accelerate our evolution. Technology will do most of our work for us. As we begin to value spiritual insight more and more, we will pay those who bring it to us, and this will eventually replace the market economy and our need for paid employment. We can connect to God's energy in such a way that we will eventually become beings of light, and walk straight into heaven.

The Nine Insights
by James Redfield

Monday, August 29, 2011

I'm addicted & I just can't get enough!!!

Boy I think about it every night and day
I'm addicted wanna jump inside your love
I wouldn't wanna have it any other way
I'm addicted and I just can't get enough

I just can't get enough
I just can't get enough
I just can't get enough
I just can't get enough

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

When we dream about dreams ....

"it's when we want to be crazy and live our life the way we dreamed about it when we were kids!"
It's when at every moment you feel like are you doing what you were really meant to be doing?
Is this why you were made ?
Is this your destiny, your goal, your passion?
Is this really what you'd rather be doing right now?

Well may be we had a free will when our parents really tried hard to align us .. wonder what would have happened if I had never obeyed them!! :D I'm happy I did - but am I really??

This is a silly quote flooding over social networking sites but somewhere it really mocks the hell out of our childhood dreams:

"How do you expect kids to listen to their parents when Tarzan lives half naked, Cinderella comes home at midnight, Pinocchio lies all the time, Aladdin is the king of thieves, Batman drives at 200 mph, Sleeping Beauty is lazy, Alice ate anything that strangers gave her and Snow White lives with 7 guys!"

I wish and pray when SimPunni have kids -- They don't forget to be like one :)

Monday, August 15, 2011

How to avoid your fears from within to across on your face!

When conditions set the boundaries of your life, when the path forward needs to be navigated through the restrictions of "If's" & "But's", when you thought you could have gotten more and want to get more out of where you are now and quick "But" somehow its not the best move to disrupt all that you have settled in for after years of struggle for stabilization.

What to do then??
Question/s which lie in front of me today are -
  • How not to show your vulnerability?
  • How not to come up as being needy?
We all need something and at this stage we approach people with a purpose in mind, making new friends is secondary; now that this is clear what lies in front is challenge of mastering the act of faking the kindness and patience of portraying oneself as Awe-inspiring and thus making the person provide you with what you need without you asking for it!

And that's how we "Adults" complicate life!
This Tips section of this page mentioned above is awesome, an I need a constant reminder to stay on track with life :)

The only way to 'not come across needy' is to ensure you are confident within yourself.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

My Punni didn't get Monica's 7 7 7 thing!!!

OMG possibly one of the best S** jokes of FRIENDS -- at least for me!! :D

When my diet went to HELL again! :D

:D

Ohh well guilty pleasures!! Food brings happiness -- Food gets satisfaction -- I love Eating! :D
It was Tini's last week of Summer Funk and we had tojust ea our hearts out and that's exactly wha we did! :)

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Master Cleanse Diet Day 4,5,6,7

Ok so here we go again -- I ate in the evening of my 4th & 6th day!! :(

29th July was Amgen's Chilifest -- hmm I was doing really good until Punit & Tini came over for the fair and we had to have a gala time - and how can it be without the Chili! :D Well on the good part - I did not really HOG! :)

I was good on Saturday and was back on the diet strictly , but Sunday was bad -- as I got really dizzy with a constant headache all day -- "Not to make the matters worse for the whole coming work week" is what my brain said and I has the lentil curry I made for Lunch with 1 tortilla.

Thus Monday, 1st of August went well and here we are on the 2nd August, Tuesday :)

I am still steadily losing - which is good - down to 130 pounds in 7 days - a pound a day! Hope to maintain this "at least" by the end of this week :)